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Ask Madame R(a)x(ie): BDSM Advice

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mlle-megan-deactivated20120409 asked: hi :) I've got a really quick question, and I'm probably not articulating what I mean correctly, but, like, how old do you think someone should be before they know whether they want a D/s relationship or not? because I'm pretty into the idea of one, except I'm like, young, and idk if it's just a phase. x) (and also, relationships of that type aren't built off the mutual kink, right? as in, they're functional relationships that just happen to involve mind-blowing sex?)

Well Hello.

I see that you’re pretty young, but age isn’t a deciding factor. My 24/7 slave V and I have been in various stages of a D/s relationship since she was 14 and I was 16 - so finding out what you like early on is a great thing, not a negative. As with all experiences in life, there will be good and bad, but figuring out what you want early on is advantageous to your life, forever.

As for kink, D/s relationships are mutual, amazing, and can involve healing rather than dysfunction! 

- Madame Rax

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